1. It is important that a man helps you around the house and has a job.
2. It is important that a man makes you laugh.
3. It is important to find a man you can count on! And doesn't lie to you.
4. It is important that a man loves you and spoils you.
5. It is important that these four men don't know each other.
PS - I had heard the above from a very experienced and wise female boss of mine over 20 years ago, and have spent all this time since attempting at proving it w-r-o-n-g. I have so far f-a-i-l-e-d, I am very sorry to report!